"War destroyed our marriage": Khmelnitsky blogger Elena Mandyuk frankly told about divorce
I understand that I was a very happy woman. I had a beautiful family. I loved me. I loved me. Every day in marriage was incredible for me. " , - said Elena. According to her, the man still wanted to mobilize in 2014, but then he was restrained by his parents. The blogger confessed that she was the initiator of divorce. When a man joined the Armed Forces, Elena had unpleasant changes in life. She was difficult without male support. "I said;" You know I don't want to keep you anymore.
If you want to go to serve I won't keep you. He didn't even think and said in one second, "I'm going. " It was very painful for me. I have accused myself for a very long time that I was the reason that he had gone. It may have been provoked by my volunteer work. Ruslan mobilized in early summer and for me as every woman, mom was stressed. I was in a very depressed state. Somewhere in a month I had a miscarriage. We had a joint business, cafes and it all fell on my shoulders.
I didn't want anything, I did not communicate with anyone. I was also found a tumor and had to operate twice. It all happened for five months. You are alone, there is no man who is my support. I turn against him that I am here and already on my shoulders. I'm not out, I'm just on the full day and I can't. I understand that then my decision was made on emotions, at maximum stress. I say everything, we divorce, I can no longer.
"," The young mother explained the cause of the breakdown of the relationship. Even after divorce, they did not stop communication, especially given the difficult circumstances that Ruslan faced with, however, nevertheless, Elena acknowledged that Connect, who once existed, was no longer the one themselves. They realized that their paths have parted, and now Elena lives with her divorce with sadness and nostalgia for the past. "He tried to refuse divorce. There were constant conversations.
There were some questions before the war, but we really solved them. However, the war destroyed our marriage. Divorce was difficult, but we did not stop communication. We communicate every day. Ruslan is now wounded. My worst days were not when we parted, but when he was storming, and I sat with my phone and thought, please get in touch. Every day live with the idea that he will die. There is no longer the Connect that was before. We have already lost it.