Why do people divorce. Three main causes of divorce during the war

I tried to summarize everything I hear from customers, and that's what happened. In this case, at the forefront, above all, there is her unwillingness to live in a family that is not at all like the one she dreamed of (here everything: from life to domestic violence) such women think about this way: we We do not know where to "arrive" tomorrow, and we do not know how much we have, in principle, life. But what we are given, we want to live the way we dreamed/wanted/planned.

Provided that it has, say, normal living conditions. In this case, she suddenly begins to look at everything with other eyes. She sees completely different conditions for life, her and children of development, other standards of quality of life (although, in this place I would argue, especially in the medical field and state school education).

He begins to share this with the man who has remained in Ukraine, he does not understand it, the word for the word, and now there are irreconcilable contradictions that lead to one - to divorce. Some women perceive it as betrayal, but during a long absence of the wife, the husband realizes that not that he is not bored, but he is just fine. And he confesses to himself that without his wife he manifests not only the rules, but much better.

It becomes important for him that in the silence that has come, he suddenly heard (it often happens when women "make" men marry under one reason or another). The man decides to put himself in the basis of himself. And this is what becomes a "trigger" for divorce. Because the truth was that his wife, when married, only solved some of her "tasks". He was just a means. PS The war exposed our nerves. We are all as a stretched string. And now you can only rely on the truth. If not, nothing will happen.